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I have a neighbor. He shouts at his kids a lot. He has a close friend with a little girl, Mindy. Does this guy also shout at his kids a lot? I don't know...

鎴戞湁鍊�(g猫)閯板眳锛屼粬缍�(j墨ng)甯稿ぇ鑱茬降瀛╁瓙銆備粬鐨勪竴鍊�(g猫)濂芥湅鍙嬫湁鍊�(g猫)灏忓コ鍏�锛屽彨鏄庤开锛屼絾鏄垜涓嶇煡閬撻偅鍊�(g猫)浜烘槸鍚︿篃缍�(j墨ng)甯稿ぇ鑱茬降瀛╁瓙……

The other day, my neighbor's son Marco, 6, and Mindy, also 6, rang my door bell. "Marco threw his monster ball on your balcony. We want to get it - if you won't be angry?"

鍓嶅咕澶�锛屾垜閯板眳6姝茬殑鍏掑瓙棣埦绉戝拰鍚屾鐨勬槑杩寜闊夸簡鎴戠殑闁€閳�銆�“棣埦绉戞妸浠栫殑鎬嵏鐞冩墧鍒颁綘瀹堕櫧(y谩ng)鑷�(t谩i)浜�锛屾垜鍊戞兂鎷垮洖瀹�——浣犱笉鏈�(hu矛)鐢熸埃鍚�?”

Me: Of course I won't be angry. Come in.

鎴戯細鐣�(d膩ng)鐒朵笉鏈�(hu矛)鐢熸埃銆傝珛(q菒ng)閫�(j矛n)鍚�銆�

Mindy: Are you really not angry?

鏄庤开锛氫綘鐪熺殑娌掓湁鐢熸埃?

Me: No.

鎴戯細鐪熺殑涓嶆渻(hu矛)銆�

Mindy: When are you angry?

鏄庤开锛氶偅浣犱粈涔堟檪(sh铆)鍊欑敓姘ｅ憖?

Me: I'm never angry with kids.

鎴戯細鎴戝緸涓嶈窡瀛╁瓙鐢熸埃銆�

Mindy: Really?

鏄庤开锛氱湡鐨勫棊?

Me: Yes.

鎴戯細鐪熺殑銆�

Mindy: Never?

鏄庤开锛氬緸渚�(l谩i)娌掓湁?

Me: Never.

鎴戯細寰炰締(l谩i)娌掓湁銆�

Mindy: Not even if we do something wrong?

鏄庤开锛氬嵆浣挎垜鍊戝仛閷�(cu貌)浜嗕篃涓嶇敓姘�?

Me: No. I'd probably tell you it was wrong, but I wouldn't be angry.

鎴戯細涓嶇敓姘�銆傛垜鍙兘鏈�(hu矛)鍛婅ù浣犻偅鏄尟(cu貌)鐨�锛屼絾鏄垜涓嶆渻(hu矛)鐢熸埃銆�

Mindy looked at me, then repeated: "You won't be angry with me?"

鏄庤开鐪嬭憲鎴�锛岀劧鍚庡張瑾�(shu艒)浜嗕竴閬嶏細“浣犵湡鐨勪笉鏈�(hu矛)璺熸垜鍊戠敓姘�?”

Me: I will never be angry with you.

鎴戯細鎴戞案閬�(yu菐n)涔熶笉鏈�(hu矛)璺熶綘鍊戠敓姘ｃ€�

She looked at me again, for a few seconds, then flung herself into my arms.

濂瑰張鐪嬩簡鎴�?gu墨)閰岃厡?锛岀劧鍚庨鎾查€�(j矛n)鎴戠殑鎳烽噷銆�

I didn't even know her, before this. There's no saying exactly what the background is, but I found it sad.

鍦ㄦ涔嬪墠鎴戝緸鏈簡瑙ｉ亷濂�銆傛垜瑾�(shu艒)涓嶆簴(zh菙n)鑳屽悗鐨勫師鍥�锛屼絾鏄垜瑕哄緱閫欎欢浜嬭畵浜哄緢闆ｉ亷銆�

In recent news, a man had entered into an electrified swimming pool to save his daughter and subsequently died from electrocution. His daughter survived.

鏈€杩戞湁鍊�(g猫)鏂拌仦锛屾湁鍊�(g猫)鐢蜂汉閫�(j矛n)鍒颁竴鍊�(g猫)閫氫簡闆荤殑娓告吵姹犲幓鏁戜粬鐨勫コ鍏�锛岄毃鍚庝粬灏辫Ц闆绘浜�锛屼絾鏄粬鐨勫コ鍏掓椿涓嬩締(l谩i)浜�銆�

My 5-year-old son looked wide-eyed as I read the report to my wife. Silence overtook the room for a moment and then in a still, small voice he said, "Daddy, would you die for me?"

鐣�(d膩ng)鎴戠郸濡诲瓙蹇甸€欐鏂拌仦鐨勬檪(sh铆)鍊�锛屾垜5姝茬殑鍏掑瓙鐫滃ぇ鐪肩潧鐪嬭憲鎴�銆備竴鏅�(sh铆)闁撳眿閲屼竴鐗囧瘋闈�锛岄亷浜嗕竴鏈�(hu矛)鍏掞紝浠栧钩闈滆€屽皬鑱茶(shu艒)閬擄細“鐖哥埜锛屼綘鏈�(hu矛)鐐烘垜鑰屾鍡�?”

"Yes, of course."

“鐣�(d膩ng)鐒舵渻(hu矛)銆�”

Tears welled up in his baby brown eyes. "I would die for you, too."

浠栨鑹茬殑鐪肩潧閲屾秾鍑轰簡娣氭按銆�“鎴戜篃鏈�(hu矛)鐐轰綘鑰屾鐨�銆�”

Needless to say, I swept him into my arms and broke down.

鐒�(w煤)闇€澶氳█锛屾垜鎶婁粬鎿侀€�(j矛n)鎳烽噷锛屽け鑱茬棝鍝�銆�

I was out all day, and didn't check in with my son, thinking at his age (17) he wouldn't care what I was doing. I was wrong. He somehow got it into his head that I might have had an accident. And worse, since his father died, I am his only parent. He said to me later, in a tone that showed exactly how scared and hurt he was, that I had frightened him into thinking he now had no parents and was all alone in the world. Needless to say, I felt horrible and have vowed to check in if I am ever out later than expected.

鎴戝湪澶栭潰鍛嗕簡涓€鏁村ぉ锛屼篃娌掑憡瑷存垜鍏掑瓙锛屾垜瑕哄緱17姝茬殑浠栦笉鏈�(hu矛)鍦ㄤ箮鎴戝湪鍋氫粈涔�銆傜劧鑰屾垜閷�(cu貌)浜�銆備粬鑾悕鍏跺鍦拌寰楁垜鍙兘鍑轰簨浜�銆傛洿绯熺硶鐨勬槸锛岃嚜寰炰粬鐖哥埜鍘讳笘鍚�锛屾垜鏄粬鍞竴鐨勫闀�(zh菐ng)浜�銆備粬闅ㄥ悗灏�(du矛)鎴戣(shu艒)锛屾垜鍤囧緱浠栦互鐐鸿嚜宸辨矑鏈夌埗姣嶄簡銆佸韬竴浜烘椿鍦ㄤ笘涓�锛岃獮(y菙)姘ｅ崄鍒嗛鎱�锛屽緢鏄彈鍌风殑妯ｅ瓙銆備笉鐢ㄨ(shu艒)锛屾垜瑕哄緱閫欏緢鍙€�锛屽苟涓旂櫦(f膩)瑾撳鏋滄垜姣旈爯(y霉)鎯充腑瑕佹櫄鍥炲鐨勮┍涓€瀹氭渻(hu矛)鍚戜粬鍫�(b脿o)鍌�銆�

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